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The Value of Journaling with Cards

Posted by Donnaleigh on March 23, 2018 at 12:55 AM

I thought I would share something personal with you.


I am a strong advocate of self-readings and journaling, and have journaled thousands of hours myself. When I was going through a difficult marriage, the cards were my therapy and the journal was my counselor who listened as I wrote words onto the page. I really never would go back and read what I wrote after the fact, but the act of physically writing released something from me.


It felt cathartic and healing, particularly when I felt there were things I could share with nobody. The page willingly received me without judgement.


Today, in my new life and in my new house with my life partner who I will soon marry, things are very different for me. He is my oasis, and I have profound gratitude. This weekend, he built me a bookshelf so I could store some of my favorite books that had been in storage. So my task today was to go through some old bins and put my favorite books up.



In that process, I found many of my old, hand-written journals in the storage bins.


WOW.


For the first time ever, I opened them up and started reading things that I had written 8 years ago, in 2010. This was during an extremely tender time in my life when I felt broken, as if I were dying inside. The notes that I wrote were amazing. Not only was what I wrote cathartic, but there was a very precise timeline of what would happen to me in the next four years, step by step, and precisely how the marriage would end, and how I would meet somebody and fall in love, find a loyal friend in this man, and find Harmony. It even told me what kind of job the man would have, and his relationship experience. I don't remember writing any of this now, but there it all is.


It also told me why I was staying in the same place. It described my situation as an exit ramp I took that curved back around and kept leading me back to the same road because I was afraid a path would not appear.So I kept going back to what I knew, the same old road i was on.



It told me I was not forward-thinking. It told me I was living other people's dreams instead of my own life. These words are very powerful to me as I look back on them and realize how honest they were.


Exerpt:

What is my challenge?

Not learning, thoughts are repeated, immaturity, trying to overturn depression. No forward thinking because she can't have foresight beyond the next step. Turning back. Daunted. She is walking on the steps in dreams of others, doesn't make her own strides. All her bridges become exit ramps and turn back to where she was before.



At the time, the process of looking forward to the future, seeing it unfold 4 years before it had happened, somehow gave me a periscope beyond what I was able to see: a view of what was on top of the water when I was underneath with no air and couldn't breathe.



This tool is available to everybody. I look back on this journaling experience now and how absolutely correct it was in every exquisite detail. I do not even remember writing many of these things, but as I read back on them in awe, I can see how much value there is in this exercise when we sit with ourselves and the cards and just let it flow. How right it was. How honest. How systematic, creative, precise, and cathartic.


There is no way to journal that is the ONLY way for everybody. What is right for you and lets you express yourself is correct for your experience. If you need to Doodle, Do It. If you need to use a certain card system, do it. If you want a variety, do it. Whatever it is that gives you time with yourself to explore how you can open the doors of your world, it is right for you.


I can share first-hand that journaling allowed me to become friends with myself, to explore the possibilities of what lay ahead for me in my own life, and to slowly allow me to make peace with where I was heading ... that I could let go of things that weren't serving me and still be safe. It showed me the dilemmas I would struggle with, the feelings I would have, and how I would overcome them.


Looking back on this messy little notebook where I spilled my conscience and worries, it is like I am reading my own biography .... and yet at the time, these things had not even happened yet. I was writing the story in vivid detail before it happened. It was a wonderful thing to discover today, reading my future, but discovering it after it had already become my past and present. I was awed, and really respect the process now that I see what it saw, with the 20/20 vision of hindsight to color it.


And it gave me further confidence that more people should have a deck of cards and a piece of paper and the ability to just... search. Journaling with cards is a powerful guidance tool and transformation system. And dare I also call it "a dear friend." I am grateful for all it gave me in the process.




Warm wishes,

DL


Context is Everything in Lenormand Small Readings

Posted by Donnaleigh on November 30, 2017 at 3:40 PM

Deck featured: Blue Bird Lenormand, 2nd edition.


Context in Lenormand is Key...

The cards are nothing without context in small readings.

This video shows the malleability of 2 cards placed in different contexts.



Your readings are like aiming an arrow at a target, and hitting the bulls eye requires a question/context match. Are you hitting the target?


To view this video, click on the video image above

to be brought directly to YouTube,

or go to: youtu.be/qULRX6FY-Ps



This video also references another video about daily draws, which can be viewed at:

youtu.be/K01xFASNFJ4



Here's wishing you bulls-eye accurate targets!


DL


How to Your Daily Lenormand Draws Better

Posted by Donnaleigh on November 14, 2017 at 8:15 AM


How to Your Lenormand Daily Draws Better

When getting the Mice card can literally mean seeing a mouse that day, the meanings for Lenormand daily draws can be broader and often more literal than in readings for wider time frames.. Let's talk about how to become a better reader through your daily draws.

This video addresses some of the difficulties in doing daily draws with the Lenormand system, and offers some suggestions to keep you on track when learning.


To view this 6 minute video tutorial, click on the image below, 


or CLICK HERE to go to be brought directly to YouTube.



Wishing you clear readings!


DL


Blue Bird Lenormand, 2nd Edition, and my book

Posted by Donnaleigh on November 13, 2017 at 12:30 AM

This video reveals the changes to the beautiful Blue Bird Lenormand deck when compared to the 1st edition.

This 2nd edition will be the deck showcased in my upcoming Lenormand how-to book,
which will be available from U.S. Games Systems, Inc. in 2018.


This deck is now available through https://www.usgamesinc.com/Blue-Bird-Lenormand-tm/" target="_blank">U.S. Games Systems, Inc, and through booksellers.



To view this video, click on the image above, or CLICK HERE to be brought to YouTube.



Wishing you clear readings!

Warmly,

DL



Tutorial Composite: Flipping the Question

Posted by Donnaleigh on November 13, 2017 at 12:25 AM



One of the most important parts of reading Lenormand well,
especially in yes/no questions,
is asking the question properly.

I've done several videos on what I call "Flipping the Question," which is nothing more than setting up any question you want so that the cards speak back to the reader clearly.

This blog will be a composite of all the videos I've done on this important technique that can improve your reading skills tenfold.




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Next, How to Ask Negative Questions of the Lenormand (This question is about cheating). 






Next, here is what seems a benign question about house insurance that also require flipping the question.








This next one demonstrates what happens in an actual reading when you compare asking negatively to when you change the wording of the question.  This question relates to blocking someone on social media:   

                                                                                          youtu.be/10TfzHpeS90



Next is a tutorial for professional Lenormand readers on how to flip the Lenormand question when live clients are seated in front of you.


When reading for clients, we become interpreters of the cards. Here's how we can become translators of the cards while respecting the question and client. A true pro becomes a master translator. Good readers interpret their craft well. But they don't have to teach clients how to interpret or read cards. That's our job and that's what they're paying us for: results, infornation, and ways to improve their life choices.


"Pro Tips for Len Flips"







Dee asked a good question about whether silently flipping the question for a client will confuse the card's energy when they connect to the client. The following video responds to that and offers a suggestion on how to include the client in the card shuffling without confusing the energy:






Wishing you clear readings!

DL


Lenormand Flipping the Question: Social Media Blocking

Posted by Donnaleigh on November 2, 2017 at 1:35 PM




 

This is an actual card question to show how important flipping the question is in a Lenormand reading. We'll talk about why it needs to be done and how clarity in interpreting a reading can be improved tenfold by using this technique.


To view this technique and reading,

Click on the image below or CLICK HERE to be brought to YouTube.


Deck shown: Blue Bird Lenormand by U.S. Games Systems, Inc.


Warmly,


DL

"Bad" Animals in Lenormand and Comments on the Celtic Lenormand

Posted by Donnaleigh on October 26, 2017 at 12:15 AM


One of my YouTube video viewers recently mentioned concern that the animals in the Lenormand appeared bad. The Snake, the Mice, the Fox...and the negativity around their meanings makes her feel uncomfortable because she is an animal lover. This video speaks to that. There's also some discussion about the extra cards in the Celtic Lenormand and how altering their use can affect your readings.



To view this video, either click on the image above,

or CLICK HERE to go directly to the YouTube page.




Warmly,


DL

More on Flipping the Question in Lenormand Readings

Posted by Donnaleigh on October 19, 2017 at 9:10 AM



This is a 2 minute Lenormand video tutorial.

Asking questions in Lenormand is key to getting crystal clear answers.

The formation of your questions can make or break your reading's clarity and outcome.

Here is a seemingly benign question about insurance that had to be flipped for clarity,

as an example of how to word your questions.



Ask for what you want, not what you fear.



To view this video tutorial, click on the image below, 

Or go directly to the YouTube video at: youtu.be/Zqoammc7vSA


Warmly,


DL


3 Things You Should Do Before Each Grand Tableau

Posted by Donnaleigh on October 10, 2017 at 9:35 AM



There are 3 things every Grand Tableau (GT) reader should do

before laying out the GT cards to keep their readings on-point.



To view this 3 minute video tutorial, click on the title image above, or

CLICK HERE to be directed to YouTube.




Warmly,


DL

Making a Lenormand Houses Template (no sewing!) for your Grand Tableau Readings

Posted by Donnaleigh on October 6, 2017 at 10:00 AM


In an earlier blog, I posted  how to make a Lenormand Grand Tableau spread cloth. 
That can be found here. But it does involve sewing.

Many readers don't sew, so this video today is for you.youtu.be/JKdG1Jhi_-o

Here is how to make a GT Houses Template...for non-sewers!

Quick, easy, and inexpensive!


To view this video,
click on the image at the top of this blog,
or go HERE.


Warmly,

DL


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